Comments on: A good girl shakes the farang money tree by On Nutter http://www.2thebigmango.com/reader-submissions/2007/07/09/a-good-girl-shakes-the-farang-money-tree-by-on-nutter/ Insiders take on Thailand Thu, 08 Jan 2009 19:22:44 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.5 By: Langchai http://www.2thebigmango.com/reader-submissions/2007/07/09/a-good-girl-shakes-the-farang-money-tree-by-on-nutter/#comment-91755 Langchai Mon, 28 Apr 2008 14:35:43 +0000 http://www.2thebigmango.com/reader-submissions/2007/07/09/a-good-girl-shakes-the-farang-money-tree-by-on-nutter/#comment-91755 Hell yeah! Spot on bro! At least with hookers, you know what you're in for - most of the time. Hell yeah! Spot on bro!
At least with hookers, you know what you’re in for - most of the time.
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]]> By: the sandman http://www.2thebigmango.com/reader-submissions/2007/07/09/a-good-girl-shakes-the-farang-money-tree-by-on-nutter/#comment-21537 the sandman Mon, 10 Sep 2007 14:21:03 +0000 http://www.2thebigmango.com/reader-submissions/2007/07/09/a-good-girl-shakes-the-farang-money-tree-by-on-nutter/#comment-21537 I consider myself and old Asia hand as are some of my older friends...If being out here in the the days of 'Nam' counts as being an old Asia hand...........We came and continue to come for the cheap charmimg pussy and in the old days the drugs..........Regarding the main story I think you are lucky you did not get suckerd into marriage. I have noted that some of my younger associates have not worked out that their 'good girl' is, not to put too finer point on it..........a prostitute looking for a visa and a western divorce settlement. They usually meet at a western style hip hop club and project their western perceptions onto the situation...........date the girl........pay loads of money......etc etc and sometimes are dim enough to marry............its sad if you like the guy but funny if you don't.......... I consider myself and old Asia hand as are some of my older friends…If being out here in the the days of ‘Nam’ counts as being an old Asia hand………..We came and continue to come for the cheap charmimg pussy and in the old days the drugs……….Regarding the main story I think you are lucky you did not get suckerd into marriage. I have noted that some of my younger associates have not worked out that their ‘good girl’ is, not to put too finer point on it……….a prostitute looking for a visa and a western divorce settlement. They usually meet at a western style hip hop club and project their western perceptions onto the situation………..date the girl……..pay loads of money……etc etc and sometimes are dim enough to marry…………its sad if you like the guy but funny if you don’t……….
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]]> By: smitty http://www.2thebigmango.com/reader-submissions/2007/07/09/a-good-girl-shakes-the-farang-money-tree-by-on-nutter/#comment-20244 smitty Tue, 04 Sep 2007 08:59:24 +0000 http://www.2thebigmango.com/reader-submissions/2007/07/09/a-good-girl-shakes-the-farang-money-tree-by-on-nutter/#comment-20244 anon - nice one. my rule is a good girl should have money, a job or a sponsor then I am all over it. Otherwise the bargirl is the cheaper option. anon - nice one. my rule is a good girl should have money, a job or a sponsor then I am all over it. Otherwise the bargirl is the cheaper option.
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]]> By: anon http://www.2thebigmango.com/reader-submissions/2007/07/09/a-good-girl-shakes-the-farang-money-tree-by-on-nutter/#comment-19981 anon Sun, 02 Sep 2007 22:47:30 +0000 http://www.2thebigmango.com/reader-submissions/2007/07/09/a-good-girl-shakes-the-farang-money-tree-by-on-nutter/#comment-19981 'good girl': buy this for me. farang: no 'gg': why? f: you not girl bar. you nice girl. 'gg': you cheap charlie f: you sound like girl bar. 'gg': no, no. i nice girl. f: good. i like nice girl. ‘good girl’: buy this for me.
farang: no
‘gg’: why?
f: you not girl bar. you nice girl.
‘gg’: you cheap charlie
f: you sound like girl bar.
‘gg’: no, no. i nice girl.
f: good. i like nice girl.
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]]> By: myspace.com/penfold_xxx http://www.2thebigmango.com/reader-submissions/2007/07/09/a-good-girl-shakes-the-farang-money-tree-by-on-nutter/#comment-19769 myspace.com/penfold_xxx Sat, 01 Sep 2007 22:32:35 +0000 http://www.2thebigmango.com/reader-submissions/2007/07/09/a-good-girl-shakes-the-farang-money-tree-by-on-nutter/#comment-19769 fair play if she has called you and you have told her where to go! reading back on my post it did seem a little harsh and abrupt - i really didnt mean it to come across like that so i aplogise if it came across that way its just i think a lot of ferangs make a rod for there own backs and when they tell stories similar to yours you have to ask wether the guy 'deserves' it or not dont get me wrong im not saying any1 'deserves 'to be strung along......... but if you hit yourself in the head with a hammer and think 'fuck me that hurts' you'd be a fool to do it again - same principal but i admit emotions can come in the way and blur judgement so it can become a grey area, but like you wisely said about getting burnt twice, you soon learn sorry again if my post came across the wrong way fair play if she has called you and you have told her where to go!

reading back on my post it did seem a little harsh and abrupt - i really didnt mean it to come across like that so i aplogise if it came across that way

its just i think a lot of ferangs make a rod for there own backs and when they tell stories similar to yours you have to ask wether the guy ‘deserves’ it or not
dont get me wrong im not saying any1 ‘deserves ‘to be strung along……… but if you hit yourself in the head with a hammer and think ‘fuck me that hurts’ you’d be a fool to do it again - same principal
but i admit emotions can come in the way and blur judgement so it can become a grey area, but like you wisely said about getting burnt twice, you soon learn

sorry again if my post came across the wrong way
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]]> By: On Nutter http://www.2thebigmango.com/reader-submissions/2007/07/09/a-good-girl-shakes-the-farang-money-tree-by-on-nutter/#comment-19667 On Nutter Sat, 01 Sep 2007 07:51:26 +0000 http://www.2thebigmango.com/reader-submissions/2007/07/09/a-good-girl-shakes-the-farang-money-tree-by-on-nutter/#comment-19667 Penfold: I take your point. Looking back, I am a bit embarrassed at how accommodating I was. If she had been a bargirl, she would have been out of the door within minutes, but after pursuing her for 18 months I was hoping we could have a proper relationship and I did not want it to end abruptly over money. I thought I could reason with her but I was wrong. I suspect you are right about Som being a bargirl at some point. A farang I met in Ayutthaya was pretty sure she was plying her trade in a bar four or five years ago. The odd thing was that she was always badmouthing bargirls. Perhaps she was trying to reinvent herself. Anyway, she has rung me twice recently asking to come and stay with me again. I turned her down. I am not going to get burned twice. Penfold: I take your point. Looking back, I am a bit embarrassed at how accommodating I was. If she had been a bargirl, she would have been out of the door within minutes, but after pursuing her for 18 months I was hoping we could have a proper relationship and I did not want it to end abruptly over money. I thought I could reason with her but I was wrong.
I suspect you are right about Som being a bargirl at some point. A farang I met in Ayutthaya was pretty sure she was plying her trade in a bar four or five years ago. The odd thing was that she was always badmouthing bargirls. Perhaps she was trying to reinvent herself.
Anyway, she has rung me twice recently asking to come and stay with me again. I turned her down. I am not going to get burned twice.
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]]> By: myspace.com/penfold_xxx http://www.2thebigmango.com/reader-submissions/2007/07/09/a-good-girl-shakes-the-farang-money-tree-by-on-nutter/#comment-19441 myspace.com/penfold_xxx Fri, 31 Aug 2007 18:22:01 +0000 http://www.2thebigmango.com/reader-submissions/2007/07/09/a-good-girl-shakes-the-farang-money-tree-by-on-nutter/#comment-19441 @siam i agree with the 'shopping trip' line - i had a gogo girl i was nailing for free for a few weeks then i was going MBK one day and asked her to join me as didnt wanna go alone - we got there and the strap on her bag was broken so i offered to buy her a new 1....... she started eyeing up bags and i was waiting outisde the shops as she was taking an age - she wittered away and came out with a bag and said how about this one (fake gucci) and assuming it'd be around 1000 baht i said OK - how much? sheepishly she looked at the floor then said 9000 - i knew she was lying so i told her no way. later she went off to the toilet so i thought id nip back to the shop - i asked how much it was and the lady said 1200baht sir....... cant believe the bitch tried to stiff me for 7800 baht - i didnt even confront her i just walked off im guesing that if this som wasnt actively a bar girl, she probably was in her day. you can take the girl outta the bar but you cant take the bar out of the girl forgive me if im talking out of turn but if you let her fleece you for so long blatantly you deserve everything you get as you only have yourself to blame. she must of been rubbing her hands together. sorry if thats sounds harsh but its true dont get me wrong we've all had our fingers burnt before but you soon cotton on. the minute a girl starts playing the 'your a ferang you have money' or the 'your the man you HAVE to take care' line they get promptly kicked to the kerb @siam i agree with the ’shopping trip’ line - i had a gogo girl i was nailing for free for a few weeks then i was going MBK one day and asked her to join me as didnt wanna go alone - we got there and the strap on her bag was broken so i offered to buy her a new 1……. she started eyeing up bags and i was waiting outisde the shops as she was taking an age - she wittered away and came out with a bag and said how about this one (fake gucci) and assuming it’d be around 1000 baht i said OK - how much? sheepishly she looked at the floor then said 9000 - i knew she was lying so i told her no way. later she went off to the toilet so i thought id nip back to the shop - i asked how much it was and the lady said 1200baht sir……. cant believe the bitch tried to stiff me for 7800 baht - i didnt even confront her i just walked off

im guesing that if this som wasnt actively a bar girl, she probably was in her day. you can take the girl outta the bar but you cant take the bar out of the girl

forgive me if im talking out of turn but if you let her fleece you for so long blatantly you deserve everything you get as you only have yourself to blame. she must of been rubbing her hands together. sorry if thats sounds harsh but its true

dont get me wrong we’ve all had our fingers burnt before but you soon cotton on. the minute a girl starts playing the ‘your a ferang you have money’ or the ‘your the man you HAVE to take care’ line they get promptly kicked to the kerb
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]]> By: yesman http://www.2thebigmango.com/reader-submissions/2007/07/09/a-good-girl-shakes-the-farang-money-tree-by-on-nutter/#comment-19331 yesman Fri, 31 Aug 2007 11:12:50 +0000 http://www.2thebigmango.com/reader-submissions/2007/07/09/a-good-girl-shakes-the-farang-money-tree-by-on-nutter/#comment-19331 psi100th you have got it!!!! yes, brother! guys, there is more to this than after the fact rationalisations. e.g., guy thinks 'well i pay for it one way or another. what's the difference?' girl thinks 'well i like sex and i'm going to fuck, so i might as well get something for it.' this is ex post facto gibberish. same with all the face/status BS. if you want to get her hot for you act like a man who LEADS+CONTROLS and she will feel compelled to sleep with you... only chance she has to try to influence you. try it. you will be amazed. when she asks for something your answer is ALWAYS no. default answer. see BGs, pay for it if you want but PLEASE act like men. break those old habits! you're no longer living in a culture of male-female equality... this should be EASY. psi100th you have got it!!!! yes, brother! guys, there is more to this than after the fact rationalisations. e.g., guy thinks ‘well i pay for it one way or another. what’s the difference?’ girl thinks ‘well i like sex and i’m going to fuck, so i might as well get something for it.’ this is ex post facto gibberish. same with all the face/status BS. if you want to get her hot for you act like a man who LEADS+CONTROLS and she will feel compelled to sleep with you… only chance she has to try to influence you. try it. you will be amazed. when she asks for something your answer is ALWAYS no. default answer. see BGs, pay for it if you want but PLEASE act like men. break those old habits! you’re no longer living in a culture of male-female equality… this should be EASY.
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]]> By: psi100th http://www.2thebigmango.com/reader-submissions/2007/07/09/a-good-girl-shakes-the-farang-money-tree-by-on-nutter/#comment-12204 psi100th Mon, 23 Jul 2007 09:34:55 +0000 http://www.2thebigmango.com/reader-submissions/2007/07/09/a-good-girl-shakes-the-farang-money-tree-by-on-nutter/#comment-12204 New here, been in LOS a while... agree about the burgers at BM - Great!!! - as to On Nutter's little problem there was an easy solution ... and in my experience it works... Thai women expect YOU to be a MAN, defined by saying no a lot and then taking off for a bit of hide the salami with some cute P4P. Then come back covered in lipstick and smelling of sex - one way or another it will solve the problem. New here, been in LOS a while… agree about the burgers at BM - Great!!! -

as to On Nutter’s little problem there was an easy solution … and in my experience it works… Thai women expect YOU to be a MAN, defined by saying no a lot and then taking off for a bit of hide the salami with some cute P4P. Then come back covered in lipstick and smelling of sex - one way or another it will solve the problem.
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]]> By: DSukhumvit http://www.2thebigmango.com/reader-submissions/2007/07/09/a-good-girl-shakes-the-farang-money-tree-by-on-nutter/#comment-11965 DSukhumvit Thu, 19 Jul 2007 05:36:30 +0000 http://www.2thebigmango.com/reader-submissions/2007/07/09/a-good-girl-shakes-the-farang-money-tree-by-on-nutter/#comment-11965 The author appears to be the Western Nutter. As to the fries, well, they jsut lag behind the great burger is all The author appears to be the Western Nutter. As to the fries, well, they jsut lag behind the great burger is all
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